Being Beach Body Ready
If there's one term I can't stand it's ' beach body ready '. It's toxic, it's destructive and it's just totally negative, implying that you have to look a certain way to be allowed on a beach. Growing up, I went on more 'diets' than I can remember, always striving for that perfect 'beach body' and always thinking of myself as a failure because I could never quite get there. All I wanted, more than anything else, was to be skinny. It was the only ambition I had for a long time, and tt makes me sad when I look back on my teenage years and see how much time I wasted hating myself and depriving myself of food I loved to try and make myself look a certain way. " Recently, I had a pretty nasty photo made of me and circulated around the town I live in by people I believed were my friends, making fun of my boobs" Of course now, quite a few years later, my stance on self love and body image is totally differen...