Holding grudges

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Do you know what is a massive waste of your time? 

Holding grudges.

Honestly, what is the point? Where does it get you in life? Absolutely no where. 

Now, I'm not saying you have to like everyone, have to be friends with everyone or have to get on with anyone; that's a pretty impossible thing to ask. But what I am saying is that you don't have to go through life constantly disliking people because you're holding a grudge against them. From my own experience I can tell you that it is absolutely draining. After a while it seems like you're only holding a grudge for the sake of holding one, eventually forgetting the original reason you were mad anyway. 


The simple solution to this is to simply cut people off. I'm being serious! Why would you want to keep someone in your life but hold a grudge against them forever when you could cut them off? There is absolutely no way you can maintain a healthy relationship or friendship with somebody when you're holding something against them. If you're that upset over something they did or said, just get rid of them from your life and move the heck on. 

Life is legitimately too short to be unhappy, and time is so precious. God forbid, if you should die tomorrow would you feel happy about these grudges? Or would you feel like they'd been a huge waste of your time and energy? I think we all know it's the latter. 

Either build a bridge and get over whatever happened or let that shit go. Don't cling onto hurt forever because it will keep you hurting forever. You can't be happy if you're allowing yourself to be weighed down with negativity. Just let it go, in whichever way works best for you. (For me, it's cutting people off but you might be more forgiving than I!)

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Is there someone you need to build a bridge with, or someone you need to cut off? Do it now. You'll be far happier and better off in your life, I promise. 

Love from,
Florence Grace

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